Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Are you a Victim of Child Sexual Abuse?

Are you a victim of child sexual abuse? Do you think it all happened because of you? STOP! Don't think that way. Do you feel guilty if you fall sick ? Do you feel guilty, if you were waiting in your car on the traffic signal and someone comes and hits your vehicle from behind? NO ! you don't. Similarly, an abuse is never your fault. Sometimes you are too scared to resist. Sometimes you are too young to understand that you are being abused. You can't even differentiate between what is right and what is wrong. You think that may be its a bad dream that you are seeing. Its only much later you come to realize what happened with you. But, then, its very similar to someone hitting your car on traffic signal, you falling sick of a virus.. it is never your fault. Perpetrators of these crimes are like Virus of our society, they infect people around them and make them sick. What YOU need to understand is that it is this virus who is at fault and not YOU. Like we take medicine to fight a virus attack, we need to get ourselves informed, resist their act - this is the only medicine the society has against these virus.
Believe in yourself. You are unique, you are good and that no one can deny. Once you start believing in yourself, things will improve. Things will change for better. And probably you would save a fellow human being from infected by this virus.
So, don't be shy, don't be afraid. It is not YOUR fault.

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